tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-28601411.post6108620191977533286..comments2024-01-08T04:33:27.543-05:00Comments on Bagwine Ruminations: There's No Need To Sigh HeavilySchmoophttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01758200133537951854noreply@blogger.comBlogger22125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-28601411.post-60665180880537352272010-08-31T21:34:15.705-04:002010-08-31T21:34:15.705-04:00Raquel: Not at all...I've always been like th...Raquel: Not at all...I've always been like this. Ask anyone!! Cheers Roc!!Schmoophttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01758200133537951854noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-28601411.post-74240230755434284592010-08-31T10:15:57.581-04:002010-08-31T10:15:57.581-04:00So Insightful...Matt Man are you becoming soft in ...So Insightful...Matt Man are you becoming soft in your old age?Raquel's Worldhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00901679946676181304noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-28601411.post-46089611596943217422010-08-30T21:37:25.117-04:002010-08-30T21:37:25.117-04:00Dana: Good point. That may be worse. Cheers Dan...Dana: Good point. That may be worse. Cheers Dana!!Schmoophttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01758200133537951854noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-28601411.post-60831875044789269822010-08-30T21:36:52.987-04:002010-08-30T21:36:52.987-04:00P-Man: I dig me some Blues. Cheers P-Man!!
Davi...P-Man: I dig me some Blues. Cheers P-Man!!<br /><br />David: Thak ya very much, and on the whole int sounds as though your life is pretty good. Cheers David!!<br /><br />Dice: Thanks!! And you are correct. Cheers Dice!!Schmoophttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01758200133537951854noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-28601411.post-3811521695877528452010-08-30T16:01:07.395-04:002010-08-30T16:01:07.395-04:00For me, dying lonely isn't the worse thing ......For me, dying lonely isn't the worse thing ... NOPE!<br /><br />For me, it would be allowing someone else to die lonely because I didn't look them in the eye, smile and say "Hello!" - letting them know that at that moment, <b><i>they</i></b> mattered.<br /><br />That would be far worse ...Danahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05427053242655177097noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-28601411.post-67083845137150159522010-08-30T15:41:30.037-04:002010-08-30T15:41:30.037-04:00great post, M2.
lonliness truly is a bummer.
:&#...great post, M2.<br /><br />lonliness truly is a bummer.<br /><br />:' (Dice Mardellhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06007610804679404507noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-28601411.post-39091693422868795742010-08-30T12:34:49.779-04:002010-08-30T12:34:49.779-04:00I have had periods of lonliness - not from lack of...I have had periods of lonliness - not from lack of friends or family...mostly depression which is fortunately now treated with meds. <br /><br />This year has felt very lonely for me - my father died 4 years ago and my mother this year - as an adopted child they were my world of love and security. But I am blessed to have some great friends who care about me and my brother with his family whom I love very much.<br /><br />Great and poignant post. God speed our Matt-ManDavidnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-28601411.post-72024405200831989112010-08-30T09:40:31.839-04:002010-08-30T09:40:31.839-04:00...Breathe deep in the gathering gloom
Watch light......Breathe deep in the gathering gloom<br />Watch lights fade from every room<br />Bedsitter people look back and lament<br />Another day's useless energy's spent<br />Impassioned lovers wrestle as one<br />Lonely man cries for love and has none<br />New mother picks up and suckles her son<br />Senior citizens wish they were young<br />Cold-hearted orb that rules the night<br />Removes the colors from our sight<br />Red is gray and yellow white<br />And we decide which is right<br />And which is an illusion?...Phfrankie Bondohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15394161741779243615noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-28601411.post-68478228187465503382010-08-30T09:22:43.570-04:002010-08-30T09:22:43.570-04:00Dianne: Why thanks sexy. I appreciate that. And ...Dianne: Why thanks sexy. I appreciate that. And how odd...My internet crashed three times during the show. I feel something sinister afoot. Cheers Di!!Schmoophttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01758200133537951854noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-28601411.post-34848482110206230732010-08-30T09:19:10.477-04:002010-08-30T09:19:10.477-04:00this is a beautiful post Matty, and one I relate t...this is a beautiful post Matty, and one I relate to - which made me a bit uncomfortable<br />but then from discomfort comes change<br /><br />I got all set up to listen to and call in to your show yesterday morn and then we had a power outage at 10:58!<br /><br />coincidence? or censorship?Diannehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02946500110072411468noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-28601411.post-250825942936718592010-08-30T08:09:43.169-04:002010-08-30T08:09:43.169-04:00Micky: Understandable and as related to Scott bov...Micky: Understandable and as related to Scott bove, I felt the same way. But I chose to do something about it and haven't felt that type of absolute loneliness in 10 years now. Cheers Mick!!<br /><br />Kimmeh: I agree but I also know that even people who choose not to open themselves oft times have people to whom they could if they chose to. Cheers and sorry...you can use my sleeve to wipe 'em off, Kimmeh!!Schmoophttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01758200133537951854noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-28601411.post-90053857085635690852010-08-30T08:02:38.649-04:002010-08-30T08:02:38.649-04:00This comment has been removed by the author.Kimhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03489320777267873318noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-28601411.post-61625832491441277562010-08-30T08:02:35.175-04:002010-08-30T08:02:35.175-04:00Lonliness is a tough thing, sometimes we feel lone...Lonliness is a tough thing, sometimes we feel lonely but in reality we just haven't opened ourselves up.<br /><br />Great post today and damnit you made my eyes sting with tears.Kimhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03489320777267873318noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-28601411.post-21300020474023445282010-08-30T07:57:37.386-04:002010-08-30T07:57:37.386-04:00That's all well said, but loneliness sometimes...That's all well said, but loneliness sometimes has very little to do with other people or lack of friends and family.<br />Not being able to (or lack of courage) share what you feel inside with others is a form of loneliness easily hidden.<br />My first adult male cry (we're talking like a baby here)was after the crew I was living, playing and working with on a 80' yacht all left to get pizza. I "needed" to stay back on the boat, I wasn't sure why, but I soon found out.<br />I felt the loneliest I have ever felt in my life and I was surrounded by friends.<br />Everyone of us are alone....inside!Kenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11290928283713813594noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-28601411.post-61482980412943267832010-08-30T07:56:43.395-04:002010-08-30T07:56:43.395-04:00Scott: I was there too in a sense. I allowed myse...Scott: I was there too in a sense. I allowed myself to ignore all of my ties with friends when I was married. I was alone while being married. Cheers Scott!!<br /><br />Michele: I understand what you mean and everyone feels lonely at times as well, but I was talking about just passng through with absolutely no one. Now go get your cat high. Cheers Michele!!<br /><br />Schmoop: Why thank ya dear!! Cheers and Zoooooves!!Schmoophttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01758200133537951854noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-28601411.post-74385404112913472142010-08-30T07:53:28.255-04:002010-08-30T07:53:28.255-04:00Mike: Ha. Good luck with avoiding new tenants. ...Mike: Ha. Good luck with avoiding new tenants. Cheers Mike!!<br /><br />Jeff: I agree. It helps to be extroverted and naturally enjoy people. Cheers Jeff!!<br /><br />Jay: I dunno...I mean if a person has no friends, go out and make some is how I see it. But you are correct in part about the results of loneliness. Cheers Jay!!Schmoophttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01758200133537951854noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-28601411.post-38644164889210099112010-08-30T07:10:52.504-04:002010-08-30T07:10:52.504-04:00Beautiful Matthew, just beautiful.Beautiful Matthew, just beautiful.Bethhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11122092528751224892noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-28601411.post-70243982140896213712010-08-30T04:41:04.251-04:002010-08-30T04:41:04.251-04:00I think there are times that you can be only in a ...I think there are times that you can be only in a crowd. By choice or not. <br /><br />Very thoughtful post. I should try doing a thoughtful post someday. Nah...I think I'll stick with posting about getting my cat high on catnip. I'm profound like that :)Michelehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14995260386315141412noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-28601411.post-372318834844373062010-08-30T03:52:05.925-04:002010-08-30T03:52:05.925-04:00I loved this post. I was actually homeless for a h...I loved this post. I was actually homeless for a horrendous two weeks at the end of my marriage. I mean, like, on the street, homeless. After all of my own family had passed away I found myself way too wrapped up in my wife’s family. We had moved away from my friends….the marriage was over, I had nobody. <br /><br />Then I said fuck it, moved to Florida and started over.Scott Oglesbyhttp://zodiblog.wordpress.com/noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-28601411.post-89001906768180030982010-08-30T00:23:53.256-04:002010-08-30T00:23:53.256-04:00At the heart of most addictions, drugs, alcohol, g...At the heart of most addictions, drugs, alcohol, gambling, eating etc, is loneliness. But, I disagree that loneliness is a choice. Or at least that it's easy to control or change.Jayhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17134850383532818765noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-28601411.post-31293977738889442142010-08-30T00:21:57.564-04:002010-08-30T00:21:57.564-04:00I really do enjoy when you wax poetic!
Being a n...I really do enjoy when you wax poetic! <br /><br />Being a natural born extrovert is a blessing for the very reason you speak of.Jeff Bhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10978944708950054312noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-28601411.post-28275842000422299212010-08-30T00:12:43.273-04:002010-08-30T00:12:43.273-04:00My kids are always one paycheck away from moving i...My kids are always one paycheck away from moving into my basement. Come ooooonnnn economy.Mikehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00017192454403363349noreply@blogger.com