This Friday finds me at a bit of a crossroads. Which for me is no big deal, but this time, the roads are a little personal.
The Bagwine posts could be erratic for awhile.
You see, in the manner of full disclosure which I have never been hesitant to give you…
Schmoop and I, after nearly nine years of living in sin together, may have hit the bricks.
We, (okay I) had an argument last night over something she did and said and, the hurt may be irreversible.
Sorry about being a pussy but…While I am incredibly thick-skinned…if said arrow comes from someone I love and actually like and respect, I don't like it.
I am not blaming her, and I am not getting into the particulars, but I just wanted to let you know that Bagwine may be on hold for awhile.
Or not…One of us is quite mercurial.
As one of us (Me) is at the mercy of the other (Her) as far as living accommodations go, I could very well be on the street soon.
This will leave me with no way to publish the Bagwine beginning Saturday. I apologize for that.
In the meantime, I want to say this to all of you folks who have, and are still reading me…
Thank You…Bless You…and Fuck You…
HA...Hey, in addition to the kudos, I knew you’d expect something rude.
Cheers!!
22 comments:
[[[ you guys ]]]]
Cheesy: Ha. You're cute. Cheers!!!
You guys need to work this out, like pronto.
There, that outta take care of things. ;-)
I hate crossroads like that. They really force us to take a good look at ourselves.
Buck up, jackass, and sleep on it. Perhaps things will look different in the morning.
Love ya.
wow, I am not sure what to say..I am sad and hope it all works out. WTF how will this work? Never mind, I don't wanna know...peace out
:(
Dude, you just painted that fucking apartment!?!?!
You need to make up signs that say
HELL NO I WON'T GO!!!
Oh, and go buy her some flowers.
You can't give up 9 years in a weekend dude. You'll have to hurt harder than that.
Her favorite flowers and a big suck-up smiley kiss etc. etc.
Good luck.
Nine years is a lot of time and emotion invested on both your parts and it's worth the time to fix. Don't be an ass; beg her forgiveness. And I'm not just saying that because I'm a girl and taking sides.
Excuse me but it is MATT-MAN's favorite flowers and delights that need to be purchased. 'Twas he that's been hurt. Justifiably? I don't know. Are you ever justified in being hurtful? That being said, think long and hard dude. Schmoop seems like a pretty cool chick, a gal it would be a shame to lose. Your road is rocky lately, wasn't too long ago that this happened...
Hubs and I will have 25 this year October. Has it all been roses hell no there has been shit but I don't think we've said anything truely hurtfull to one another in that time.
My heart and thoughts are with you Matty.
We can all tell you to suck it up...buy flowers...smile and be sweet..
It is what YOU want. You being both you and Schmoop...
Talk it out..figure it out...work it out...whether that means you move to Memphis and sleep on top of my washing machine...
Damn right Lu. Is it because I'm the guy in the relationship that it is assumed that I created the problem? Cheers to ya!!
I've always known that it is the words - spoken in anger and haste - that do the most damage to a relationship.
... and that's all I'm saying about that ...
...in the immortal words of one Johnny W. Lennon: "Life is very short
and there's no time
for fussing and fighting
my friend"...
I think guys often get the short end of the stick!(nothing randy implied)
Now I know this is serious....
you only answered Lu back!
She hit the nail sticking out of your head.
Oh, [[[Matt]]]
So many, many times people say things in anger. I am always personally amazed at how Steve can forgive me after I say something awful to him when if the shoe were on the other foot and he behaved even half the way I do, I would be crushed. I am ashamed. Women - we can be very, very hurtful.
It takes two - always - and I hope that your love can overcome 'cause I've always thought that the two of you had something very special in the Bagwine Digs. Choose Love.
You're both in my thoughts. Big Hugs!
Oh no, say it isn't so.
Perhaps Shmoop should pay a visit to me before she embraces the single life again. A few pages from my blog should be enough to convince her of the error of her ways and get you an apology.
I hope everything works out.
If not, I have a half-empty queen size to offer!
Wow, this gives me the sads...take care of YOU and I hope things work out for you, in whatever way is best.
hey, I am thinking of you both.
Just in general...Thanks y'all. Cheers!!
arrows....
Why do you always have The Dramz when I am in Bitch Hermit Mode? Huh?
Holler at me if you need a sounding board. And I hope you feels better. It sucks hard having your feelings hurt.
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